Brunei vs United States
Side-by-side comparison of how these places approach childhood.
Brunei
Bruneian children attend free schools, receive free healthcare, and pay no income tax.
Oil wealth funds a cradle-to-grave welfare state where children's education, health, and basic needs are fully subsidized by the sultan.
United States
In parts of the US, letting your child walk to school alone can trigger a call to child protective services.
A culture of intensive parenting and liability anxiety has made American childhood the most supervised in history.
Brunei
Brunei uses a bilingual system with Malay and English as languages of instruction. The SPN21 curriculum spans preschool through university. Islamic religious education is compulsory for Muslim students. Education is free at all levels.
United States
Highly decentralized โ quality varies enormously by zip code. School starts at age 5 (kindergarten). Strong emphasis on extracurriculars, especially sports. Standardized testing shapes curriculum.
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