Afghanistan vs Netherlands
Side-by-side comparison of how these places approach childhood.
Afghanistan
Since 2021, Afghan girls over 12 are banned from attending school.
The Taliban's return ended two decades of progress in girls' education, affecting 1.4 million secondary-school girls.
Netherlands
Dutch children are ranked the happiest in the world โ and cycle to school alone from age 8.
UNICEF's child well-being reports have repeatedly placed the Netherlands at or near the top. A culture of trust, world-class cycling infrastructure, and relaxed parenting norms create a unique childhood.
Afghanistan
Since the Taliban takeover in August 2021, girls above grade 6 are banned from school and women from universities. Boys' education continues but with revised curriculum emphasizing religious studies. Before 2021, enrollment had risen from near-zero for girls to 3.5 million.
Netherlands
Children start basisschool at age 4. At 12, they are placed into one of several tracks (vmbo, havo, vwo) based on a national test and teacher recommendation. No school uniforms. Strong emphasis on independence and responsibility.
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